One of the most prominent reasons guys go out at night is to get a girl to like them. When you go out with this objective, you’re putting a lot of pressure on yourself to go out and meet people. Now this can be both a good and bad thing depending on how advanced you are.
On the one hand, you’ll be kicking yourself if you’re standing around not talking to anyone because you’ll know that you aren’t reaching your objective.
However, when you set an objective to go out and really pick up girls, you’re making sure you don’t pass the entire night talking to friends aimlessly. Then again, how bad is it to just talk to friends?
Here’s how to get the best of both worlds when you’re trying to learn how to start a conversation with a girl, first go out knowing that you’re going to meet girls… and guys. You’re going to be social tonight with everyone that you meet. This relieves a lot of the pressure because instead of “only talking to cute girls”, you are now talking to everyone you see! Not only that, but you’ll build a lot of social proof when you talk to everyone and it will help to get you into a social mood that is very attractive to women.