Author: Nancy

There is a widespread misconception among guys about what it takes to make a girl like you; if you thought it’s your car, try changing from the Mazda you drive to a Porsche – still, she doesn’t like you. Try buying her a car instead, she will like the car alright, but not you!

What really makes a man likable? It certainly isn’t his wealth, that’s just a cherry on the cake; it also isn’t his looks, they only work as an attraction but the bark doesn’t stop there; you may have power but not even a position of influence grants you the power to make her like you.

The important question is always this: Do you like yourself?

It has to be two-way: if you despise yourself others will also despise you too, it is in appreciating yourself that others will appreciate you. Those who writhe in self-hate receive more sympathy than adoration; and if you’re one of these, a change is inevitable.

The awkwardest, most daunting thing to reveal to a woman cannot be that her outfit is eye-catching, or that she fragrance is alluring–not even that her beauty is unparalleled. What’s awkward is revealing that you adore her. No wonder men hunger to know how to tell a woman you really like her, you probably do too!

Don’t be afraid to admit that you like a girl, there couldn’t be any shame in that, not even in the fact that you cannot resist admitting your feelings to her. If she’s attractive, she probably knows it all too well, and it would come as no surprise that men appreciate that.

Perhaps you would only be ashamed in revealing your heart’s desires so openly to a woman that immediately shunned you without a shred of sensitivity. That would hurt. But when it does happen, you simply brave it up and keep trying or just move on to the next one!

Would you choose to be left speculating what may have occurred in the event that you unveiled your liking for her?

The pleasure that comes in opening up can not be worse than the regretting what you should have done–telling her, for regardless of the outcome, it is better than living to regret.

On your marks – get set – go! That’s how it goes down at the race track for sprints, but on the race track of flirting, there is no alert. If you have your grips on how to flirt with a girl, you fully understand why flirting is a race and why there never is a race-gun.

What makes flirting a race? Look at it this way, if you don’t keep up, you’ve either already thrown in the towel for a stimulating hit below belt, or have no game, and if so, why would she race with you?

Imagine if nothing was ever spontaneous, even the games we love to play in between the sheets…Yeah, a pretty drab life that would be. You don’t want to be looking out for signs of “we are now flirting in 3-2-1-and…”

Remember if you have to sweat when flirting, let it not be because you’re having a hard time but a hard one doing it!

 

It’s interesting to learn that some men actually found it easier telling a girl that they loved her than asking her out. And so what’s the big deal with asking for a date? If you’re the kind of guy that almost gets it hot on the cheek when trying to make a date, then you need to learn how to ask a girl out.

Nothing stinks quite like phobia. It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t know what “fear of asking a girl out” is called, she can certainly smell it! Rest assured, it’s not an aura but an odor – women don’t like cowardly guys…

You might just be surprised to learn that the source of your misery is not that you aren’t good-looking, but that you can’t sell yourself!