There are guys who are natural born women magnet and there others who are not most likely you are not the chick magnet so how can you meet women? For some men this is one of the most frightening task to have because there is too much of a risk of getting denied and rejected and even worse get woman, all you need to is to remove all apprehensions, doubts and concerns but instead just focus on one thing, starting a conversation with a woman.
The reason for this is even you give all the hints you can do you will always start meeting women by starting a conversation with a woman and there is no other way around it.
You’re queuing at the mall and standing right in front of you is this breathtaking girl that you only got a momentary glimpse of. So far, neither she nor you have shared a word, but you’re obviously dying to! Moreover, you haven’t the slightest idea of how to start a conversation with a girl as dashing as this one…!
Each time you brave yourself to start a conversation with her–and even have the first words in your head–your tongue gets stuck in your mouth and you let that moment pass…
The queue is still crawling but if you don’t get that conversation started in the next few minutes, talking to that girl will be more of a regret than a wish.
What do you do? Don’t waste time with such opportunities, considering how close you are to her, you even don’t have to walk up to her for she’s right there queuing in front of you!
The guy in front of her certainly isn’t going to waste time the moment he lays his eyes on her…and as for the guy behind her (you), well, it could be a gone case when he does!
Where do you find it ideal approach women? The fact that you need to have had a drink just to get a girl should speak volumes as far as your low confidence goes. In reality, mastering the art of how to pick up girls is not that difficult, but the more seriously you take it the more you’ll break a sweat while at it.
Most guys get so scared by the thought of walking up to a strange woman and talking to her. The problem with having a fear is that it stinks so much, you’ll be wasting time trying to hide it. What’s more, a cowardly man is not just unattractive but also unmanly.
You cannot plan too much to pick up a girl for various reasons: you don’t know her, neither does she know you; you also can’t predict her reaction but you can influence it.
How can you achieve that? By making your approach so extraordinary but not too subtle. Make sure she knows whatever it is you’re after–a date with her. If you make it look like all you wanted was directions, you’ll get your directions alright, but that will be it.
You’ve probably asked yourself this question before, and maybe even gone to the extent of asking your friends. Yet for some reason, you still haven’t found the appropriate answers to what do girls look for in a guy…
You probably once thought that girls are all into money, until you realized that even with all your money, you’re still lonely. You might have also thought that having drop-dead looks would grant you a fast ticket–but you’re still waiting at the terminus.
Don’t feel hopeless just yet! Would it make you feel any better if girls only looked for money and looks in a guy? It should be more encouraging that women don’t really look for aesthetic qualities in a guy, they simply look for value and quality.
To find out how high (or low) you rank on that scale, just deduct all the aesthetic attributes you have and see what that leaves you with…that’s what girls will see in you!