Category: dating

It’s interesting to learn that some men actually found it easier telling a girl that they loved her than asking her out. And so what’s the big deal with asking for a date? If you’re the kind of guy that almost gets it hot on the cheek when trying to make a date, then you need to learn how to ask a girl out.

Nothing stinks quite like phobia. It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t know what “fear of asking a girl out” is called, she can certainly smell it! Rest assured, it’s not an aura but an odor – women don’t like cowardly guys…

You might just be surprised to learn that the source of your misery is not that you aren’t good-looking, but that you can’t sell yourself!

One of the most prominent reasons guys go out at night is to get a girl to like them. When you go out with this objective, you’re putting a lot of pressure on yourself to go out and meet people. Now this can be both a good and bad thing depending on how advanced you are.

On the one hand, you’ll be kicking yourself if you’re standing around not talking to anyone because you’ll know that you aren’t reaching your objective.

However, when you set an objective to go out and really pick up girls, you’re making sure you don’t pass the entire night talking to friends aimlessly. Then again, how bad is it to just talk to friends?

Here’s how to get the best of both worlds when you’re trying to learn how to start a conversation with a girl, first go out knowing that you’re going to meet girls… and guys. You’re going to be social tonight with everyone that you meet. This relieves a lot of the pressure because instead of “only talking to cute girls”, you are now talking to everyone you see! Not only that, but you’ll build a lot of social proof when you talk to everyone and it will help to get you into a social mood that is very attractive to women.

What is it about trying too hard to achieve something that always backfires right in your face? If you’re a guy, then you probably know this all too well, especially when you like a girl that doesn’t feel the same… So have you tried to your wit’s best and failed to find how to get a girl to like you?

Don’t be fooled to thinking that the end always justifies the means. What if this girl does end up liking you, but not quite in the way you’d want her to, or as much as you’d wish?

Remember, if she likes you as a friend, you have achieved something — but not it! And besides, what are the odds that a guy who wants a girl to like him doesn’t want more than a “friend” tag?

The big secret is not to try too hard for when you do, you’ll be too lucky to get tags much worse than “friend”. And unless you don’t mind being tagged “desperate”, then you should know better than to suffocate her lest she goes from “like you as a friend” to “despise you as a desperado”!