There is a widespread misconception among guys about what it takes to make a girl like you; if you thought it’s your car, try changing from the Mazda you drive to a Porsche – still, she doesn’t like you. Try buying her a car instead, she will like the car alright, but not you!
What really makes a man likable? It certainly isn’t his wealth, that’s just a cherry on the cake; it also isn’t his looks, they only work as an attraction but the bark doesn’t stop there; you may have power but not even a position of influence grants you the power to make her like you.
The important question is always this: Do you like yourself?
It has to be two-way: if you despise yourself others will also despise you too, it is in appreciating yourself that others will appreciate you. Those who writhe in self-hate receive more sympathy than adoration; and if you’re one of these, a change is inevitable.