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There is a widespread misconception among guys about what it takes to make a girl like you; if you thought it’s your car, try changing from the Mazda you drive to a Porsche – still, she doesn’t like you. Try buying her a car instead, she will like the car alright, but not you!

What really makes a man likable? It certainly isn’t his wealth, that’s just a cherry on the cake; it also isn’t his looks, they only work as an attraction but the bark doesn’t stop there; you may have power but not even a position of influence grants you the power to make her like you.

The important question is always this: Do you like yourself?

It has to be two-way: if you despise yourself others will also despise you too, it is in appreciating yourself that others will appreciate you. Those who writhe in self-hate receive more sympathy than adoration; and if you’re one of these, a change is inevitable.

The awkwardest, most daunting thing to reveal to a woman cannot be that her outfit is eye-catching, or that she fragrance is alluring–not even that her beauty is unparalleled. What’s awkward is revealing that you adore her. No wonder men hunger to know how to tell a woman you really like her, you probably do too!

Don’t be afraid to admit that you like a girl, there couldn’t be any shame in that, not even in the fact that you cannot resist admitting your feelings to her. If she’s attractive, she probably knows it all too well, and it would come as no surprise that men appreciate that.

Perhaps you would only be ashamed in revealing your heart’s desires so openly to a woman that immediately shunned you without a shred of sensitivity. That would hurt. But when it does happen, you simply brave it up and keep trying or just move on to the next one!

Would you choose to be left speculating what may have occurred in the event that you unveiled your liking for her?

The pleasure that comes in opening up can not be worse than the regretting what you should have done–telling her, for regardless of the outcome, it is better than living to regret.

On your marks – get set – go! That’s how it goes down at the race track for sprints, but on the race track of flirting, there is no alert. If you have your grips on how to flirt with a girl, you fully understand why flirting is a race and why there never is a race-gun.

What makes flirting a race? Look at it this way, if you don’t keep up, you’ve either already thrown in the towel for a stimulating hit below belt, or have no game, and if so, why would she race with you?

Imagine if nothing was ever spontaneous, even the games we love to play in between the sheets…Yeah, a pretty drab life that would be. You don’t want to be looking out for signs of “we are now flirting in 3-2-1-and…”

Remember if you have to sweat when flirting, let it not be because you’re having a hard time but a hard one doing it!

It’s interesting to learn that some men actually found it easier telling a girl that they loved her than asking her out. And so what’s the big deal with asking for a date? If you’re the kind of guy that almost gets it hot on the cheek when trying to make a date, then you need to learn how to ask a girl out.

Nothing stinks quite like phobia. It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t know what “fear of asking a girl out” is called, she can certainly smell it! Rest assured, it’s not an aura but an odor – women don’t like cowardly guys…

You might just be surprised to learn that the source of your misery is not that you aren’t good-looking, but that you can’t sell yourself!

One of the most prominent reasons guys go out at night is to get a girl to like them. When you go out with this objective, you’re putting a lot of pressure on yourself to go out and meet people. Now this can be both a good and bad thing depending on how advanced you are.

On the one hand, you’ll be kicking yourself if you’re standing around not talking to anyone because you’ll know that you aren’t reaching your objective.

However, when you set an objective to go out and really pick up girls, you’re making sure you don’t pass the entire night talking to friends aimlessly. Then again, how bad is it to just talk to friends?

Here’s how to get the best of both worlds when you’re trying to learn how to start a conversation with a girl, first go out knowing that you’re going to meet girls… and guys. You’re going to be social tonight with everyone that you meet. This relieves a lot of the pressure because instead of “only talking to cute girls”, you are now talking to everyone you see! Not only that, but you’ll build a lot of social proof when you talk to everyone and it will help to get you into a social mood that is very attractive to women.

What is it about trying too hard to achieve something that always backfires right in your face? If you’re a guy, then you probably know this all too well, especially when you like a girl that doesn’t feel the same… So have you tried to your wit’s best and failed to find how to get a girl to like you?

Don’t be fooled to thinking that the end always justifies the means. What if this girl does end up liking you, but not quite in the way you’d want her to, or as much as you’d wish?

Remember, if she likes you as a friend, you have achieved something — but not it! And besides, what are the odds that a guy who wants a girl to like him doesn’t want more than a “friend” tag?

The big secret is not to try too hard for when you do, you’ll be too lucky to get tags much worse than “friend”. And unless you don’t mind being tagged “desperate”, then you should know better than to suffocate her lest she goes from “like you as a friend” to “despise you as a desperado”!