Where do you find it ideal approach women? The fact that you need to have had a drink just to get a girl should speak volumes as far as your low confidence goes. In reality, mastering the art of how to pick up girls is not that difficult, but the more seriously you take it the more you’ll break a sweat while at it.
Most guys get so scared by the thought of walking up to a strange woman and talking to her. The problem with having a fear is that it stinks so much, you’ll be wasting time trying to hide it. What’s more, a cowardly man is not just unattractive but also unmanly.
You cannot plan too much to pick up a girl for various reasons: you don’t know her, neither does she know you; you also can’t predict her reaction but you can influence it.
How can you achieve that? By making your approach so extraordinary but not too subtle. Make sure she knows whatever it is you’re after–a date with her. If you make it look like all you wanted was directions, you’ll get your directions alright, but that will be it.